I Went To My First Swinger Party Last Night

I Went To My First Swinger Party Last Night

It was an interesting experience, I was excited to go and I even wore a bit of a sexy outfit. But I must admit after being there for an hour or so I regretted my choice of clothing. You see this particular swinger party was a bit geriatric! The beginning of the party was going fairly well after I arrived with some friends of mine I also discovered other friends of mine had also shown up. I was very happy about that, I love to socialize. Which are a very big step for me and a very big change considering I am most definitely an introvert. But if I am pushed just a bit I will venture out into the world of kink events.

Well, when I first arrived we went in the front door and through the house making our way to the backyard. They had chairs and such set up around a burn pit on a concrete patio. It was very nice looking and relaxing. We sat around and was have some nice conversations with my friends that had attended this event. After a while, I and some other friends of mine were curious about what goes on inside so we all ventured upstairs to take a look. What we saw wasn’t very surprising to see but I must admit it was a bit different. You see my career is taking care of the elderly so seeing a naked elderly isn’t really a big deal considering I’ve seen just about any kind of naked elderly person in my 30+ years of doing this. But to see the elderly in action was a totally different ballgame! I may never look at my clients the same way again! I must say though I sure hope I am that spry at that age.

Ok, back to the subject I was originally on, my choice of clothing. I will attend another party but I will not adventure in sexy clothing. I felt like I was fresh meat in a room full of wolves!! Being one of the younger people there (there were a few of us) it was like open season for the geriatrics! One of them got a little too handsy for me when I was in the process of leaving, which rubbed my comfort level a bit too much and gave me a lot of pause in my consideration of attending another party. But this person was a little inebriated so I am going to give them the benefit of the doubt. I didn’t share that part with my SO so I am sure after he reads this there will be some questions and also some explanations.

But all in all, I did have a nice time. I am excited about the next party and I look forward to seeing my friends and sitting around the fire while we have nice conversations. Until the next time……..

3 thoughts on “I Went To My First Swinger Party Last Night

  1. As we discussed (at some length) prior to your going, I’m not really of the swinging party vibe. The fact that you are is fine by me, I think we all need to have new experiences and if you’re getting invited to parties, you’re obviously doing the right things to be getting the invites, so by all means keep up with it. You’re using the opportunities to network, invest in interactions and meet new and interesting people. That will certainly serve you well as time progresses.

    I have to admit that I was initially surprised when you mentioned that there was a more geriatric vibe to the upstairs participants, but when I thought more on it, it made sense. Just because one has reached a more advanced age doesn’t mean they’re not going to be interested in swinging, or in having intercourse.

    I’m glad you had a good time and are thinking of going to another one. But perhaps you’re right in changing to a different style of clothing the next time you go, if for no other reason than to keep the crowd from thinking you’re available 😉

  2. “But this person was a little inebriated so I am going to give them the benefit of the doubt.”

    Being drunk should not give you a pass to make someone feel uncomfortable. Sexual Harassment like this shouldn’t be allowed to happen at all.

    Sorry this happened to you.

  3. Thank you so much for this!!! I wasn’t feeling validated in my feelings and was trying to make the excuses for the other person. This is very much appreciated, thank you for seeing it for what it was. Thank you for helping me get things straight in my head! I value you so very much! 😘

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